Capture his heart may well make him love you forever!

I want to write briefly about a program that is available on the Internet called Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever (relationship and dating advice).

I know there is a great deal of cynicism about programs like this, but the simple truth of the matter is that they can be extremely useful in enabling people to build an intimate relationship which provides them with fulfilment and emotional satisfaction.

I should emphasise that Capture His Heart has been reviewed very thoroughly in a number of places, including by me, a practising therapist and counselor, and it has been applauded by everybody who has seen it. You may wonder what the qualifications are to write an Internet program consisting of dating advice: well, they probably are just about the same as the qualifications to write an Internet site offering advice on any subject — that is to say, that you have experience in the field, you can write well, you’re an intelligent individual, and you simply know what you’re talking about.

picture of mike fiore picture of claire casey author of Capture His HeartI don’t mean to be facetious when I say this, because actually those are all very specific and quite essential attributes. The individuals in question are Claire Casey and Michael Fiore, who are experienced in the field of relationship advice and Internet programming. Together they have brought the skills necessary to bear are very helpful and essential program which can enable people to build intimacy and enjoy happy and successful relationships.

Michael Fiore starts his program by offering insightful women into the behaviour of men, explaining what makes men behaving the way they do, and what motivates them to pursue women in a relationship.

He provides great emphasis on traditional gender roles, a viewpoint which may not be popular with feminists, with which I fully is agree, mostly because my own understanding of human nature gathered over years of therapy and counselling is that we are most fulfilled when we operate within the dictates of our genetic inheritance.

And there is nowhere that the genetic inheritance we have within us influences our behaviour than in the area of dating and relationships. You may not believe this now, but I would suggest that after you’ve reviewed Mike Fiore’s program, Capture His heart and Make Him Love You Forever, you may well have good reason to change your mind!

I’ve heard from hundreds of women, who have told me that quite literally that they have never understood male behaviour in a way that Michael Fiore has explained.

And I can confirm, having bought the program, that he and his co-author, Claire Casey, have indeed broken down male behaviour into its fundamental components, and offered an explanation for women of male psychology which is certainly one of the best available on the Internet.

Now of course establishing a successful relationship is not just about understanding the behaviour of the opposite sex. Indeed, you need advice on dating behaviour, intimate relationships, dealing with your own emotional issues, and coming to understand your partner in a way that builds trust and intimacy.

capture his heart suggests dreams can come trueThe great thing about capture his heart and make him love you for ever is that it provides all this information in a simple form that people can readily understand without entering into a complicated process of counselling and therapy.

The short fact of the matter is that I don’t think you will find a better relationship advice program this one anywhere on the Internet.

Anger and action in the world – the keys to success

The purpose of Action energy in my life is to help me exercise power and purpose, and to maintain boundaries.

12_137030Power over ourself, appropriate self-discipline and a clear sense of one’s own personal power, power over others, over nature. The Worker works to establish her willpower in a culture that tells us it is scary to take your power.

The job of the Worker is to establish my strong sense of self, my ego. Our Worker energy establishes our sense of who we are, our self, and so gives us a starting point from which to act. Worker energy brings us successful action, and so confirms that our self is the right self.

Confirming his self he develops his individuality, while discovering his strengths and weakness. Without this grounding we loose our centre, and are not able to properly contain, to have or to hold. Our strong boundaries are our hermetic seal which allow us to build up our inner power and so transform. Without them we get dissipated and diluted and so become ineffectual.

Anger

Building the ultimate boundary, our ego, this energy distinguishes between what is ‘us’ and what is ‘not us’.

Worker energy is about self-building and self-defining, autonomy, self-esteem and individuation. The Worker has good self-esteem and balanced ego strength. She is confident.

The Worker picks its team, builds its power and accomplishes its mission. The Worker transforms our basic urges of instinct and movement into activity.

He carries his safety and security within the ground of his body and himself, and so moves into the unknown, willing to take risks and face challenges, with the fire of his strength rising upwards, dynamic and light, moving away from gravity, transforming matter with the strength of his will.

The Worker is willing to leave the way it has always been behind, to leave passivity, to transform his habits, and set a new course.

He is willing to individuate, to to be independent of public opinion, to step out of the familiar and to confront uncertainty. He is willing to be the change he sees that is needed in the world.

Learning about this energy as a child the child seeks to understand and test the boundaries that its parents have set, seeing what boundaries the world has placed around it.

If the boundaries have been set too strictly the child will get scared, thinking the world is dangerous. If the boundaries are indistinct and too lenient the child will get an inflated sense of itself and think it can do anything it wants. This is the time for self development, and self regulation.

Successful Loving, Happy Relationships

A clandestine affair might seem exciting (in your mind or in actuality when it happens), but it cannot compare with giving an orgasm to the woman you married, the woman whom you love and with whom you share everything in your life.

And when you do learn how to give her this incredible God-given pleasure, you might be amazed at how she will become a more exciting person to be around, and how that life-numbing boredom that led you to think about possibly cheating (or maybe actually doing it) will disappear once excitement with an excited spouse has entered your life.

And of course, the only reason a woman would cheat on the man she loves and is married to and wants to spend the rest of her life with is because she’s sexually frustrated, she keeps “getting to the edge of the cliff” and never goes over it.

This is about the most horrendous physical frustration that any human body can endure. Men can’t even imagine getting to the point of almost having an orgasm and never having it because they never experience that. It’s truly beyond their comprehension. And some women have endured this for years!

Many women have told me that sex is not that important, that they’re really looking only for affection, only for hugs and “I love you’s,” but trust me, if her husband takes the time and trouble to learn how to give her an orgasm every time they intercourse, that’s the kind of affection that will keep her faithful and will let her know you cared enough to learn how to show her she’s loved.

And who says the hugs and “I love you’s” won’t be there with the orgasm? Why do so many women think it’s either one or the other, not both?

The bottom line is that every woman who loves a man wants to surrender to that man, wants him to make her have an orgasm through intercourse, but up till now he didn’t know how.

But once he learns how and lovingly teases her and drives her wild and then makes her come in this extraordinary way, this will create incredible respect (he took control of my body) and love (he cares enough to make this unbounded ecstasy happen for me), and intimacy (I feel closer than I ever thought possible to the man I love).

So it takes the love of the husband to understand the possible problem and to have the  strength to take charge in the sexual arena. The problem only happens if the man believes it when his wife tells him “It doesn’t feel good,” “Stop,” “Don’t do that anymore,” etc.

When he’s making love with the technique, some women are subconsciously afraid of losing control, even though that’s what they really want. And that fear can only be overcome when it’s replaced by love. A woman must know her husband loves her, and he must take charge of her body.

He cannot be intimidated by her. He must realize that every woman deep down desires her man to take control of her body—not her life, not her money, but her body—and he must take charge of her body.

This is why love and faithfulness and commitment and marriage are so important to a truly happy sex life. When you’re in love and are loved in return by someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone you trust totally, you will allow him to take charge of your body and give you sexual nirvana every single time you make love.

You cannot have a great marriage without that deep sexual intimacy. This is what being “in love” is all about.

Sexual Power

Not only is it tremendously exciting for a man to feel sexual power over the woman he loves, it is even more exciting for his wife to feel his sexual power. But some women are afraid of a man’s sexual power.

I can’t tell you how many times women have called me on live call-in talk-radio shows and screamed at me that every married woman should be in control of her own orgasm and should learn to masturbate so she’s not dependent on her husband.

I have argued that the only reason women say this is because these women have given up on their husbands ever learning how to give them orgasms through intercourse, and how sad this is.

But once a husband learns how to do this, real sexual excitement will take over the marriage, and if he felt love from her before, he won’t believe the love he’s going to feel from her now.

As I mentioned before, after I did the survey of 486 married women from all over the country in 1980, 1 found out that I was not the only woman “faking” it with my husband (remember, this was 1980 and nobody talked about faking then; it was still in the closet).

Up till then I honestly thought I was the only one, and I also thought there was something wrong with me, because every time we made love, my husband had an orgasm, so there was obviously nothing wrong with him—it had to be me. Or with our sexual techniques.

This ultimately led to my divorce. Let me give you a short scenario on why marriages break up and why husbands and wives cheat.

Everyone is looking for a “soul mate.” I don’t care who you are, a bachelor-type man or a career-oriented woman; underneath it all there is a longing to find your “better half” and become a perfectly together whole.

Now two people meet, fall in love, and get married, each confident that the other is the missing half, the long-sought-after soul mate.
The first few months are divine, and then once in a while the wife will get a little testy and he responds testily.

If an orgasm gives endorphins, her body is screaming out for the missing endorphins resulting from the missing orgasms. And as more months go by, more spats.

How many men could go six months or a year without an orgasm or hardly ever having one? And how cranky, crabby, bitchy would he be if he did go six months or a year without one?

So she bitches about the top he left off the toothpaste tube, the bills, etc., and he screams back. But she’s not bitching about bills or toothpaste tops; her body is very tense and nervous, making her mind and spirit tense and nervous just as his would be if he never got satisfaction.

As the spats continue and slowly worsen after several years, and the yelling gets louder, each starts to think, “This can’t possibly be my soul mate. I made a mistake.” And each starts to secretly re-look for a new and different soul mate. And the marriage is figuratively over.